…5 categories men always put women in
The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like sex is the best way to finding the right one. This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on sexual intimacy than emotional intimacy.
Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.
As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having sex with your partner.
1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.
2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand
Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.
3. Do you both share the same ideas and values
It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.
Meanwhile, there are 5 categories men put women into, they are the one night stands, friends with benefits, friend zone, girlfriend and wife.
1. The one night stand
Once a woman enters into the this category, the only way to get out is stop having sex with this guy. There are many reasons girls fall into these kind of categories , it’s either the guys they are sleeping with are cheating on their girlfriends or are emotionally unavailable or not attracted enough to you.
2. Friends with benefits
You guys just have sex, you are not even friends. A woman becomes a friend with benefits for two reasons, he doesn’t like her personality, he doesn’t feel he should commit to her.
3. Friendzone
The guy obviously doesn’t see you as a sexual being. He’s not physically attracted to you, only attracted to your personality. They may be attracted to you but don’t see you as a girlfriend material, could be the result of a sordid past. In some cases, if you escape the friendzone, it could lead to marriage.
4. Girlfriend
The men see you as a sexual being but not as a wife. They just need to know you a little bit more and if you are in this stage, it’s totally not your fault. All you need is time to get to know each other better. If many years down the line, there’s no mention of marriage then it looks like you don’t have what it takes to be his wife.
5. Wife
It means that he feels you have all the ingredients to make him happy.
